Halaqoh Cinta: Cukupkah Sekadar Itu***

Halaqoh Cinta: Cukupkah Sekadar Itu***

Cukupkah Sekadar Itu***

Assalamualaikum wbt...=)
Setinggi2 selawat dan salam buat Rasullullah S.A.W, kekasih Allah yang dirindui.

Tsunami, Earhtquake, Gunung berapi, Radiation leak


Disana -sini kecoh tentang bencana alam yang banyak berlaku sekarang. Mcm2 spekulasi bleh kita dengar,

"tanda-tanda akhir zaman, balasan dari Allah"

Ramai orang yang tahu tentang hakikat kejadian itu adalah 'teguran' Dari Allah, tapi berapa ramai yang menginsafi kejadian tersebut. Sudah cukup sedar kah kita, jika hanya sekadar tahu kenapa kejadian ini berlaku, tanpa mengambil pengikhtibaran dari nya. Seharusnya kita renung bagaimana cara untuk kita menanggapi sekian banyak teguran dari Allah, bukan lah untuk terus bercakap mengenai spekulasi tersebut. Apakah 'kata2' yang perlu kita jawab sebagai balasan terhadap 'teguran2' itu? Adakah cukup dengan hanya rasa sedih takkala melihat video dan gambar bencana tersebut atau terus mengira bilangan angka korban dengan rasa pilu? Adakah cukup dengan hanya menyatakan kesihan, menyatakan takut tanpa mengambil sebarang tindakan? Adakah itu, cara2 yang kita ambil untuk menjawab teguran2 dari Yang Maha Kuasa...

Bagaimana untuk kita menjawab 'teguran2' itu?
Perbanyakkanlah muhasabah diri kerana itu jalan terbaik untuk kita terus mendekat padaNya.
Janganlah kita lalai dengan kehidupan dunia.
Perbaikilah amalan, pertingkat kan iman.
Berubahlah kepada yang lebih baik.
Bertaubatlah......

Andai tsunami itu masih belum mampu menyedarkan, Andai earhtquake itu belum cukup menginsafkan, Andai letusan itu masih belum bangkitkan kita dari lena...maka,
ketahuilah bahawa Allah sangat mampu 'menegur' kita dengan sesuatu yang lebih hebat, lebih besar daripada ini..

"Sesungguhnya, PadaMu Ya Allah, kami berlindung. Lindungilah kami dari azab di dunia dan azab akhirat kelak.."

Wasallam..Semoga jumpa lagi
(*___*)

Be Positive ^_______^

Assalamualaikum wbt...(@_@)
Selawat dan salam buat Rasul junjungan mulia, Nabi Muhammad S.A.W

"Sedey mengenangkan usaha yang tidak dihargai, lebeh sedey bila terkenang yang bersama tidak berusaha bersama"

Hari ni baru dpt tahu ramai yang tak dpt dtg Bengkel Pengurusan Jenazah. Ya, saya rasa sya sgt berusaha untuk menrealitikan program tersebut, tapi last2 dpt tahu rmai yg tak dpt hadir...=(
Ya, mmg salah saya lambat gtau korg sumer, tp paperwork pon baru lulus, tak kan kita nk tmpal notis before benda tu tak diluluskan...dalam meeting pon sya da ckp, bkn x gtau...agak sedey lah...tapi apa bley buat..setiap org ada pendapat masing2 kan..huhu
Mmg ader kwn ckp, paksa dorg dtg jgak, tapi saya mmg x reti lah nk paksa org..huhu
saya mmg x ada ability tuk jadi leader..=(

Tak per Ema, ikhlaskan niat tuk buat program ni..ape jnji kamu pada Allah pada malam tu..
kamu kena ingat tu...
biar apa pun yang jadi program ttp kna diteruskan..kalo yang x dpt dtg mgkin dorg ada hal yang betul2 dorg x leh nk elak kan..
x per..chaiyok2, semoga semuanya berjalan lancar..doakan itu..semua ni ada hikmah nya..

ps:// x sbar nk tmatkan program ni...mls da nk pk..otak ni x leh nk process masalah lagi da..huhu

Saya risaulah (@_@)

Assalamualaikum...:)
Selawat dan salam buat junjungan kita, Nabi Muhammad S.A.W

hari ni saya pergi pusat kesihatan UiTM Shah Alam, nak wat check up gigi..Pastu alih2 dentist tu suruh datang lagi 2 minggu akan datang..Terpaksa ponteng lagi lah nampaknya..huhu..Alang2 nak pergi Shah Alam tu saya ajak lah kawan saya ni pergi sekali. Dia da lama ajak saya kuar, tapi x pernah ada masa nak kuar ngan dia..So, ni lah tyme nak kuar ngan dia.. Lamer da x jupa dan berciter2 ngan dia, so banyak lah citer yang kuar..
Dia tanya saya pasal jodoh..yelah kitaorang kan da makin berusia, memang patutlah dia berfikir pasal tu...hehehe

Dia : "Ma, risaulah camner nak kawen ni, pakwe pun x der lagi ni. Ema, islam kan suruh kita usaha untuk dapatkan jodoh, tapi saya mcm x ada usaha pun".
Saya : "Usaha yang macam mana islam suruh kita buat, adakah dengan mengoda lelaki2 yang kita suka tu?"
Saya bertanya dia balik.
Dia: "Eh, bukan, tu bukan usaha, tu mengatal"..hehehe..Nak usaha mcm maner ye Ema?"
Saya: "Entahlah, Ema pun bukan tahu sgt bab2 ni, maklumlah Ema pun x ada pakwe, tapi apa yang Ema tahu, Ema x nak couple dulu. Ema nak kawen je, kalo umur 28, x ada orang lagi, terpaksalah suh ma ngan abah Ema yang cari." ..hehehe

Tipulah kalo saya kata saya x pernah risau pasal tu. Ya, saya terlalu risaukan nya. Jeles dengan kawan2 yang bakal menjadi isteri dan ibu..hehehe, tapi itu tidak bermakna kita harus merendahkan martabat kita sebagai perempuan dengan mengorat lelaki yang kita suka. So, usaha yang macam mana yang islam suruh kita buat? Pada pendapat saya yang masih kurang ilmu ni, islam menyuruh kita sebagai perempuan berusaha mencari jodoh dengan memilih pasangan yang betul2 dapat membimbing kita untuk menuju Syurga nan abadi. Dan kalau ditakdirkan kita ter'minat' dengan sorang mamat ni dan kita yakin dengan akhlaknya dan dia dapat membimbing kita, why not, kita mulakan dulu. Bukan dengan mengoda dia, tapi melalui orang perantaraan dan orang perantaraan itu mestilah seorang yang kita percaya, yakin dan amanah. Itu adalah satu usaha kita untuk mendapatkan jodoh. Soal dia terima atau tak, serahkan pada Dia Yang Maha Kuasa kerana Dia lebih mengetahui apa yang terbaik buat kita, apa yang penting kita ada usaha ke arah itu kan. Solat istikharah pun salah satu bentuk usaha kita untuk mendapatkan jodoh yang terbaik buat kita. Berdoalah, kerana itulah satu cara untuk kita beritahu Allah apa yang kita nak, Dia yang Maha Mendengar. Semoga kita dikurniakan jodoh yang menyenangkan hati, dan dapat membimbing kita untuk menjadi wanita solehah.
Dan kepada kawan2 yang bakal menjadi seorang isteri dan ibu, tahniah yer..jadilah seorang isteri yang menyenangkan hati suaminya, jadilah seorang ibu yang melahirkan pejuang2 islam..Semoga korang semua berjaya yer..Doakan "kami-kami" ni semoga ditemukan jodoh yang terbaik buat kami...hehehe
Buat kawan yang amat saya sayangi, saya faham perasaan kamu tu tapi ingatlah,citer buah epal tu...Semoga kamu dapat ilham darinya.
"Semakin tinggi buah di atas, semakin susah untuk dia dimiliki, hanya yang benar2 layak yang mampu mendaptkannya"..semoga kamulah Epal yang bertuah itu..(^_^)
Wasalam

Bahagia di akhir hayat

Salah seorang ulama berkata;

"Jika engkau bertakwa kepada Allah, Allah akan menolongmu tanpa bentuan keluarga , menjadikanmu kaya tanpa harta, menjadikanmu bahagia tanpa dunia dan menerangimu tanpa pelita." Inilah bahagia yang dicari para sahabat.

Salman, seorang sahabat yang miskin meninggal dalam keadaan tersenyum. Semantara Qarun dilaknat, diusir, dan dimasukan ke dalam api neraka, padahal, dia memiliki gudang harta yang kuncinya harus dipikul oleh beberapa orang.

Bandingkan keduanya. Memang sangat jauh berbeza, seperti langit dan bumi. Saya tidak mengatakan kita harus memakai pakaian yang buruk dan selekeh dan kita akan meninggal dalam keadaan tersenyum, TIDAK. Apa yang saya ingin katakan ialah rasa cukup apa yang ada merupakan salah satu jalan menuju kebahagiaan dan lapang dada, dan tidak melemahkan hati dan membinasakan diri dengan pesona dunia yang hanya sementara dan tentunya bukan milik kita. Lihatlah para sahabat, tanpa harta yang bertimbun, mereka masih tersenyum di akhir hayat mereka dan itulah yang dinamakan kebahagiaan.

Redalah terhadap apa yang dianugerahkan Allah kepadamu. Jika engkau telah menjaga agama dan iman, maka kehilangan dunia tidak akan membahayakanmu.

"Ya Allah, jadikan hati-hati ini, hati yang sentiasa bersyukur atas apa jua kurniaanmu, bibir ini bibir yang sentiasa basah dengan kalimah mu, mata ini, mata yang sentiasa berjaga demi agamamu, kaki ini, kaki yang sentiasa rukuk tunduk menghadapmu dan dahi yang sentiasa sujud padamu." ameen

~~Save Your Marriage~~

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.